Bad Girl, you thought you’re smart and rioted wildly in your college days. You bragged how your best company are the bad boys. Before you knew it, they had used you like a rag countless times. Eventually no relationship worked. Since you have never learned your lesson, you open your legs everywhere to other people’s husbands… and then you wonder why you’re so depressed!
Good girl, an equally good man approached you in your early twenties. Because several other men had asked for your hand in marriage, you were arrogant with your husband from the day you began dating. Regrettably, he didn’t have the capacity to tame your arrogance and your marriage broke into pieces. As you approach your mid-forties, you’ve now sobered up and trusting God for another husband.
Bad boy, you thought you played the girl by tuning her for a one-night stand. She outwitted you and refused to walk out of your house. By the time you realized you’re married, your family, friends and colleagues thought you’re smart and calculative. You felt duped into a relationship you were not prepared. But rather than working out issues with this woman you hardly knew anything about, you’ve resorted to sleeping around with any woman you find including prostitutes.
Good boy, your intentions were good but your ignorance was poisonous. Using 20th BC autocratic leadership style, you silenced your woman into submission and left her hanging in bed. While you’ve never broken your marriage, your pastor and your mother ran all your affairs. Your blue wife now looks like your mother’s agemate and you only see sex in the dictionary. You’re convinced those who talk about marital bliss are seasoned actors.
But all is not lost ladies and gentlemen. There’s neither sex nor marriage in heaven. You can enjoy life with your partner beyond description. Of prime importance is to take responsibility of your choices and stop blaming your partner. Your partner is a reflection of your choices and standards. Embrace your partner wholeheartedly and commit to make them happy. That happiness will bounce back to you.
Credits: DR. K. N. JACOB
