Twelve Laws of Karma

 Karma is the law of cause and effect – an unbreakable law of the cosmos. Your actions create your future. The reason your fate is never sealed is because you have free will. Therefore your future cannot already be written. That would not be fair. Life gives you chances. Karma is a somewhat abstract concept to many of us. There is a lot of confusing information on this non-religious topic – information which is unnecessary. So, we think it’d be helpful to paint a bit of a picture to help solidify the concept of karma.

To do so, just a quick example is necessary.

Say that we are all willing to go around and help people in any way we see fit – putting coins in expired parking meters, holding doors open for everyone, giving a couple dollars to a homeless person, buying someone’s coffee or tea, etc., etc.

Now two questions: What is the possibility that the person we’ve helped will reciprocate, or “pay it forward”? What’s the possibility that this action created a positive source of energy?

That’s a very basic example of everyday karma. Of course, there is negative karma as well. Gandhi explains such in a simple yet profound way:

“A man is but the product of his thoughts. What he thinks, he becomes.”

NOW THAT WE’VE ESTABLISHED A BASIC UNDERSTANDING OF KARMA, LET’S TAKE A LOOK AT 12 OF KARMA’S LAWS THAT CAN CHANGE YOUR LIFE.

1. The Great Law: “As you sow, so shall you reap.”

The simple explanation of the Great Law is: our thought and actions have consequences – good or bad. If we desire peace, love, harmony, prosperity, etc. we must be willing to act accordingly. This is also known as the “Law of Cause and Effect.” Also, energy (thought, action) that we put into the world has a consequence, immediate or not.

2. The Law of Creation: “What we desire comes through participation.”

The life we see around us was created by a person’s intentions. As we are one with the Universe, our intentions determine the evolution of creation. Since what we surround ourselves with becomes part of us, it’s our responsibility to ensure these surroundings are conducive to our desires.

3. The Law of Humility: “Refusal to accept what is will still be what is.”

Acceptance is a near-universal virtue in many belief systems. Simply put, we must first accept the present circumstances in order to change them.

In focusing on the negative instead of making changes to address the negative, we’re committing to a zero-sum result.

4. The Law of Growth: “Our own growth is above any circumstance.”

The only thing we have control over is ourselves. The subsequent action (or inaction) of motive will yield either positive or negative circumstances in our lives.

True change only occurs if we make the commitment to change what is in our heart.

5. The Law of Responsibility: “Our lives are of our own doing, nothing else.”

When there is turbulence in one’s own life, there is often turbulence internally. If we’re to change our life, we must change our frame of mind and surroundings.

6. The Law of Connection: “Everything in the Universe is connected, both large and small.”

Our past, present and future are all connected. As such, we must put in the work to change these connections if we desire something different. No step – first, intermediate or last – is more important in the accomplishment of a task. All are required.

7. The Law of Focus: “One cannot direct attention beyond a single task.”

Relating to our spiritual growth, we cannot have negative thoughts or actions and expect to grow spiritually. We must direct full attention to achieve any desired task.

8. The Law of Hospitality and Giving: “Demonstrating our selflessness shows true intentions.”

Put simply: what we claim to believe must manifest into our actions. Selflessness is a virtue only if we’re accommodating something other than ourselves. Without a selfless nature, true spiritual growth is nearly impossible.

9. The Law of Change: “History repeats itself unless changed.”

Conscious commitment to change is the only method of influencing the past. History will continue along an unconstructive path until positive energies direct it elsewhere.

10. The Law of Here and Now: “The Present is all we have.”

Looking back regretfully and forward pointlessly robs oneself of a present opportunity. Old thoughts and patterns of behavior negate the present chance to advance ourselves.

11. The Law of Patience and Reward: “Nothing of value is created without a patient mindset.”

Toiling away cannot be circumvented through wishful thinking. Our rewards are claimed only through patience and persistence, nothing else. Rewards are not the end-result. True, lasting joy comes from the knowledge of doing what’s necessary in the rightful anticipation of a reward that is well-earned.

12. The Law of Significance and Inspiration: “The best reward is one that contributes to the Whole.”

The end result is of little value if it leaves little or nothing behind. Energy and intentions are vital components that determine the significance of an end-result. Ideally, love and passion embody the motives of one that resolves to leave a lasting impression on the Whole.

Never Go Back to a Woman Who Cheated

When trust is broken through betrayal, something sacred dies. Love can survive many storms—poverty, distance, disagreement—but cheating is different. It’s not just a mistake; it’s a choice. A conscious decision to dishonor the bond you shared, to trade loyalty for lust, and to gamble your heart for temporary pleasure.

When a woman cheats, she doesn’t just betray you—she betrays the foundation you built together. The laughter, the secrets, the shared dreams—all lose their meaning because the truth that once held them together is gone. Trust, once shattered, never fits the same way again. You may glue it back, but the cracks will always show.

Going back to a woman who cheated is like rebuilding a house on burned ground. You might decorate it differently, but the ashes underneath remain. Every argument, every late night, every unanswered call will resurrect the ghost of betrayal. Love cannot breathe in suspicion.

Forgiveness is noble. Healing is necessary. But reconciliation is not a requirement. You can forgive and still walk away. You can let go without returning. Going back often means reopening wounds that were meant to teach you—not trap you.

A woman who truly loved you would protect your trust like her own heartbeat. If she could break it once, she could do it again. Real love honors presence even in absence, and loyalty even in temptation. Once she chooses to step out, she’s told you what you needed to know about her respect for you.

So don’t go back. Don’t let nostalgia disguise itself as love. Don’t let loneliness make you call it destiny. Leaving is not bitterness—it’s self-respect. Some doors close because they were never meant to reopen.

Let her go. Heal. Grow.
Because the right woman won’t make you question your worth - she’ll remind you of it every day.

You Were Not Meant for Marriage

Marriage is one of life’s greatest commitments—and one of its greatest tests. It is not for everyone. Many enter it unprepared, thinking love alone will sustain them. But marriage demands more than affection; it requires humility, selflessness, and maturity. Before saying “I do,” it’s worth asking: am I truly ready to become one with another person?

If sex doesn’t matter to you, marriage isn’t for you.
Sex is not just a physical act—it’s a vital bond of intimacy, trust, and affection that keeps partners connected. In marriage, sex is not optional; it’s part of the emotional and spiritual glue that holds two people together. If you don’t value that intimacy, marriage will feel incomplete. Instead, surround yourself with friends, build a strong community, or even consider adoption if you wish to nurture a family. Companionship has many forms, but marriage demands sexual and emotional unity.

If you want to keep your money separate, stay single.
Marriage is not a business partnership—it’s a union. It thrives on shared goals, shared sacrifices, and shared blessings. When you treat your finances like you’re just roommates splitting bills, you build walls instead of trust. A healthy marriage means joining hands and hearts, even in money matters. If you want to keep your wallet closed, keep your ring finger free.

If you love your parents and children more than your spouse, marriage will feel like a burden.
Your partner must come first—not out of selfishness, but because marriage is the foundation on which family stands. When you marry, you leave your parents to build a new home with your spouse. If your loyalty still leans backward or sideways, the bond you share with your partner will wither. Love your family, yes—but honor your partner as your life companion. If you can’t do that, stay where your heart already lives—with your parents or your children.

If you can’t listen, stay alone.
Marriage isn’t ruled by one voice or one opinion. It flourishes when both partners are heard, understood, and valued. The stubborn and self-righteous destroy intimacy with their pride. A know-it-all may win arguments but lose affection. Listening is love in action—it says, “You matter.” If you can’t humble yourself to hear another heart, solitude may serve you better than a marriage filled with silence and resentment.

If you’re not correctable, stay single.
Marriage exposes the best and worst in us. It reveals our flaws—and demands that we confront them. If you can’t say “I’m sorry,” if you can’t admit when you’re wrong, you can’t truly love. Pride builds distance; humility builds bridges. A strong marriage doesn’t need perfect people—it needs two people willing to apologize, forgive, and grow together.

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Marriage is sacred, but it is not compulsory. It’s a calling for those willing to die to self and live for us. If you want full control, stay single. If you crave constant freedom, stay single. But if you’re ready to love, serve, and sacrifice - then marriage, with all its trials and triumphs, may be the greatest adventure your heart will ever know.

Love Your Partner

Love is one of the most profound experiences life can offer—but it’s also one of the most misunderstood. Too often, people confuse love with attraction or desire. But love is not sex. Even strangers can have sex. Love is something far deeper, far more enduring. It’s sacrifice, patience, and a daily choice. It’s the quiet decision to stay and nurture a bond even when it’s easier to walk away. True love shows up—especially when it’s hard to stay.

Love is listening to your partner.
Listening is not merely hearing words—it’s giving your partner your full presence. It’s setting aside distractions, silencing your inner dialogue, and opening your heart to understand what they truly feel. Love listens with empathy, not with the intent to reply or correct. It seeks to validate emotions, not dismiss them. When you love your partner, you calm their fears with gentleness and understanding. You remind them that their voice matters and their feelings are safe with you.

Love is forgiving your partner.
Forgiveness in love is not weakness—it’s strength. It’s refusing to keep score or revisit old wounds just to win an argument. Real love doesn’t dig up the past to shame; it builds the future through grace. When you love someone, you understand that they, like you, are imperfect. Love chooses peace over punishment, humility over pride. It’s in forgiveness that love finds freedom, and in grace that relationships grow deeper roots.

Love is supporting your partner’s dreams.
When your partner dares to dream, love becomes their loudest cheer. It’s believing in them when they doubt themselves, and carrying part of their load when they’re too weary to continue. Love doesn’t envy success—it celebrates it. It stands beside, not behind or ahead. Supporting your partner’s dreams is an act of faith—faith in who they are and who they can become. Love thrives when both hearts feel seen, encouraged, and uplifted.

Love is never lost.
Even in silence, even in distance, love that is true never fades. Love never fails—it evolves. But love, like any living thing, needs care. It needs nurturing. Just like fire needs fuel, love needs effort, attention, and renewal. It must be watered with kindness, compassion, and communication. When neglected, it dims. When fed, it burns brighter.

Ultimately, love is not a fleeting feeling—it is an intentional decision. Feelings may change, but commitment endures. Love speaks through actions: through late-night talks, gentle touches, honest words, and consistent presence. It proves itself in the moments when it’s hardest to love—and chooses to love anyway.

To love your partner is to say, every day: I choose you. I believe in you. I forgive you. I’m with you. That is real love. Not perfection, but persistence. Not grand gestures, but small, faithful acts. Because love, in the end, is not something we fall into—it’s something we build, nurture, and live.

May be it is useful for others

 A Wife came Home early and found her Husband in their Bedroom making love to a very Attractive Young Woman. She was very Upset. 

"You are a Disrēspêctful Pīg!" she Cried. "How dare you do this to me – a Faithful Wife, the Mother of your Children! I'm Leaving you. I want a Divorce, NOW!"

The Husband calmly replied, "Hang on just a Minute Love. At least let me tell you what Happened."

"Fine, go ahead", the Wife Sobbed, "but they will be the last Words you say to me!". The Husband Began:

"Well, as I was getting into the Car at Work to drive Home, this Young Lady here asked me for a Lift. She looked so Distressed, Helpless and Defenceless that I took Pity on her and let her into the Car."

"She was very Thin, not well Dressed and very Dirty and told me that she hadn't Eaten for Three Days."

"Out of Compassion, I brought her Home and Warmed up the Pizza I made for you last Night that you wouldn’t eat because you're afraid you'll put on Weight. The Poor thing Ate it, Ravenously."

"She was Dirty. I suggested she have a Shower. While Showering, I noticed her Clothes were Filthy and Threadbare. I threw them away."

"I gave her the Designer Jeans that you’ve had for a Few Years, but don’t Wear because you say they are too Tight."

"I gave her Underwear, your Anniversary Present from me, which you don’t Wear because you said I don't have Good Taste."

_"I gave her the Sexy Blouse my sister gave you for Christmas, that you don’t Wear just to annoy her. 

I also donated those Boots you bought at an expensive Boutique but don’t Wear because someone at Work has the same Pair."_

The Husband Paused, took a quick Breath and continued:

_"She was so Grateful for my understanding and help that as I walked her to the Door, she turned to me with Tears in her Eyes and said, “Please Sir... Do you have anything else that your Wife doesn’t use?

Understanding Why Men Date Younger Women: An Evolutionary and Psychological Perspective

 

Relationships are complex, but one pattern has remained consistent across time and cultures: as men age and become more established, many tend to prefer younger women. While popular culture often frames this choice as shallow or exploitative, research in evolutionary psychology, behavioral science, and social dynamics reveals deeper forces at play.

1. Evolutionary Biology: The Link Between Youth and Reproductive Value

From an evolutionary standpoint, attraction is not random—it serves the biological purpose of reproduction and survival. According to evolutionary theorists such as David Buss (1989), men across all cultures consistently show a preference for younger women because youth is subconsciously associated with fertility and reproductive health. In ancestral environments, choosing a younger partner increased the likelihood of passing on genes successfully. Although modern relationships often transcend reproduction, these instincts remain deeply embedded in human psychology. In short, a man’s attraction to youth is not simply aesthetic—it’s evolutionary.

2. Psychological Reinforcement: Youth as a Symbol of Vitality and Renewal

Beyond biology, psychological theories of attraction suggest that men are drawn to younger women because they represent vitality, optimism, and openness—traits that balance the fatigue and rigidity that come with age and responsibility. Research in social psychology (Kenrick & Keefe, 1992) shows that as men grow older, their preference for youth does not change significantly, while women’s preferences shift toward stability and status. This asymmetry reflects a natural exchange: younger women seek security and guidance, while older men seek energy and renewal. In many ways, the attraction is symbolic. A younger partner reminds a man of his own vitality—a mirror to the strength, confidence, and freedom he worked hard to attain.

3. Socioeconomic Dynamics: Power, Choice, and the “Peak Market Value” Theory

Economic and social theories further clarify this phenomenon. During their 20s and 30s, many men invest heavily in career-building, education, and self-improvement—often delaying emotional or romantic fulfillment. By their 40s, those investments typically pay off. At this stage, a man’s “market value” (as described by sociologists like Hakim, 2010) reaches its peak. He is stable, financially secure, emotionally grounded, and confident. In contrast, younger women in their 20s are often at their peak desirability in terms of beauty, youth, and social appeal. These intersecting peaks create a natural attraction pattern that is not purely superficial—it reflects a balance of assets valued by both genders. Thus, when older men date younger women, it often represents an exchange of what each partner values most: stability and wisdom for youth and energy.

4. Gender Dynamics and the Desire for Respect and Peace

Modern relationship studies highlight another key factor: emotional climate. As men mature, they become less interested in competition within relationships and more interested in companionship marked by respect and tranquility. Clinical psychologist Dr. Jordan Peterson has argued that men seek peace rather than chaos in their personal lives. After decades of navigating professional stress, many men find that relationships with women closer to their age sometimes involve more tension, independence, or a “negotiation of respect.” Younger women, on the other hand, are often perceived (rightly or wrongly) as more admiring, less combative, and emotionally flexible—offering the emotional harmony men crave in later life.

5. Cultural Shifts and Perception

It’s also important to recognize that modern culture amplifies these patterns. Media glorifies youth and beauty, reinforcing subconscious attraction cues. Simultaneously, older men who have reached personal or financial stability often find themselves in a position of choice rather than pursuit. At 40, a man is not begging for validation; he’s selecting based on what complements his lifestyle, peace, and legacy. His preferences reflect not arrogance, but agency.

Conclusion: The Harsh but Human Truth

The tendency for men to date younger women is not a modern trend—it is a psychological and evolutionary constant rooted in biology, social exchange, and emotional needs. Biologically, youth signals fertility and vitality. Psychologically, it represents renewal and admiration. Socially, it aligns with the stage of life where men possess choice and stability. At 40, a man’s priorities shift from seeking validation to choosing peace. And while this reality may seem harsh, it reflects a deeper truth about human nature: people gravitate toward what balances them. For men who have fought to build themselves, youth, beauty, and peace are not indulgences—they are rewards for years of sacrifice.

References

·       Buss, D. M. (1989). Sex differences in human mate preferences: Evolutionary hypotheses tested in 37 cultures. Behavioral and Brain Sciences, 12(1), 1–49.

·       Kenrick, D. T., & Keefe, R. C. (1992). Age preferences in mates reflect sex differences in reproductive strategies. Behavioral and Brain Sciences, 15(1), 75–133.

·       Hakim, C. (2010). Erotic Capital: The Power of Attraction in the Boardroom and the Bedroom. Basic Books.

·       Peterson, J. B. (2018). 12 Rules for Life: An Antidote to Chaos. Random House.